Humans are more self-sympathizer & less self-accountable

Self-sympathy is an exaggeratedly negative thought, which overshadows our self-accountability. Self-sympathy spouts victimizational feelings as if an unfair circumstance disrupted our lives away, and expecting condolences of others….with self-sympathy we feel that our situation is worsen than other people’s and we always blame our circumstances for what they are…in short, self-sympathy is amalgamation of eclipsed self-accountability, gravity of an unfair loss and perpetual sadness…
on other side Allah says in Quran,
Indeed a man is witness against himself (about his corruption), whatever the excuses he may fabricate (in denial of his corruption).
(Surah Al-Qiyama : 14, 15)