Your Name Affects Your Behavior
Why, Susie Sells Seashells by the Seashore?━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━Short answer is, your Name Affects your Behavior.“Research on unconscious self-enhancement – or what we call implicit egotism – suggests that people’s positive automatic associations about themselves may influence their feelings about almost anything that people associate with the self,” write researchers Brett W. Pelham, Matthew C. Mirenberg, and John T. Jones of the State University of New York at Buffalo in their 2002 report, “Why Susie Sells Seashells by the Seashore: Implicit Egotism and Major Life Decisions,” published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology.According to research on the concept, the letters of your name have been found to influence personal life decisions as significant as where you live, what you do for a living, even who you fall in love with, even your choice of a political candidate depends on the letters of your name.
Wednesday, April 8, 2015
Your Name Affects Your Behavior
Monday, March 30, 2015
Effects of Tasbeeh
Q) What are the effects of tasbeeh?
Ans) W salam...sir no rocket science is there to understand the effects of tasbi on you...
Ans) W salam...sir no rocket science is there to understand the effects of tasbi on you...
Let me clear you first, having more than enough money... comfort zone... wealth... luxurious life... they're not standards to determines ur effects of tasbi....
Life is not static...Money comes and goes...children come and go.. parent come and go...life is all about transitional period, you've to prepare urself to cope up all deficiencies in it...you've to give ur acceptance to God for very short period and you've to understand this fact nothin is absolute in life...only one thing is absolute that is God...
Against whole phenomenon above, only tasbi can help you to concentrate on and to focus on ur vantage point, and that is God... phir us ke bahd tasbi ke asraat sub se pehle aap ke dil pe hon ge...if ur heart is in peace then it means tasbi is working whether situation is tough or whole situation standing against you...but your heart will be so satisfied with God as if nothing left in ur life to fullfill it except the only one whom you remembered utmost... who generates ur thoughts n then he who refines them aswell...who is sitting very calm in depth of ur heart...ur top priority...
أَلَا بِذِكْرِ اللَّـهِ تَطْمَئِنُّ الْقُلُوبُ
Unquestionably, by the remembrance of Allah there is peace of heart...
سورة الرعد : 28
Q) If someone feels that he is not coping with his current situation then should he increase the tasbeeh?
Ans) Sir, if i advise you u better increase this dua as much as you can....
Q) If someone feels that he is not coping with his current situation then should he increase the tasbeeh?
Ans) Sir, if i advise you u better increase this dua as much as you can....
اللَّهُمَّ أَعِنِّي عَلَى ذِكْرِكَ وَشُكْرِكَ وَحُسْنِ عِبَادَتِكَ
O Allah, help me in remembering You, in giving You thanks, and worshipping You well. ]
(Sunan Abu Dawud)
when you finish ur tasbih then start asking this duah as a tasbih.
Don't You think?
When you learn something new, the structure of your brain changes.
After hitting every single fruitful thought, activity of 100 billion neurons & one trillion glial cells start exercising to make a better structure of ur brain. And this development of your brain keep going until your late 40's...
Think: Before It's Too Late....
But the question arises that does this process stops at late 40s if yes then why have we been asked to strive for knowledge till you can die?
And answer by محمد جنید أحمد goes like this
Im not going to reply with short, why we have to strive for knowledge from cradle to grave, even-though i have simple answer of this query, when your brain start losing efficiency it doesn't mean, you are losing your whole Cognitive Brain...it is simple that less efficient brain brings less progress in brain development which leads to less cognition...and less cognition is still the cognition...
Now come to the lengthy answer, first of all you should need to understand that, some changes are inevitable, but we have to learn how would we have to manage those inevitable changes, which are pretty much certain in our upcoming lives....
Like the rest of your body, your brain changes with each passing year. From the time we are infants, our brains are adapting, learning, making memories and more. We become smarter and sharper, earning the wisdom that truly only comes with life experience. Once we hit our late twenties, the brain’s aging process begins and we begin losing neurons—the cells that make up the brain and nervous system. By our sixties, our brains have literally begun to shrink...this is what neuroscience explains...
But you have to learn how your brain changes as you age to get a better handle on what is happening in this magical part of your body.
First i'll start from very important part of our brain, which is called prefrontal cortex...Professor Sarah-Jayne Blakemore, a neuroscientist with the Institute of Cognitive Neuroscience at University College London says,
" The prefrontal cortex is the region at the front of the brain just behind the forehead, and is an area of the brain that undergoes the longest period of development. It is an important area of the brain for high cognitive functions such as planning and decision-making, and it is also a key area for social behavior, social awareness, for empathy and understanding and interacting with other people, and various personality traits. Prof. Blakemore said the prefrontal cortex “is the part of the brain that makes us human,” since there is such a strong link between this area of the brain and a person’s personality.
Prof. Blakemore said brain scans show the prefrontal cortex continues to change shape as people reach their 30s and up to their late 40s. "
Bottom line of above research is that Brain is not fully mature until 40s...same thing Allah mentioned in Quran
حَتَّىٰ إِذَا بَلَغَ أَشُدَّهُ وَبَلَغَ أَرْبَعِينَ سَنَةً
[He (Man) grows] until, when he reaches maturity and reaches the age of forty years,
(Al-Ahqaf : 15)
Age 40's-50's
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According to research in the British Medical Journal, From your mid 40s to late 50s, your reasoning skills slow. In a group of people who were first tested on various mental abilities when they were 45–49 years old, reasoning skills declined by 3.6 percent over 10 years.
The middle-age participants also experienced fading sharpness in memory and verbal fluency—the ability to say words quickly in a specific category.
Age 60's-70's
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According to researchers at the University of California, San Diego School of Medicine. in 60s, The brain has begun to shrink in size and, after a lifetime of gaining accumulated knowledge, it becomes less efficient at accessing that knowledge and adding to it. The greatest risk factor for Alzheimer’s is advancing age, and most individuals with the disease are 65 or older. Surprisingly, when Alzheimer’s hits people in their 60s and 70s, they show faster rates of brain tissue loss and cognitive decline compared to patients 80 years and older.
Age 70's-80
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in 70s and 80s, Your risk of developing Alzheimer’s increases with age, reaching 50 percent by age 85...
Crux of above stages Allah pointing out in Quran,
وَاللَّـهُ خَلَقَكُمْ ثُمَّ يَتَوَفَّاكُمْ وَمِنكُم مَّن يُرَدُّ إِلَىٰ أَرْذَلِ الْعُمُرِ لِكَيْ لَا يَعْلَمَ بَعْدَ عِلْمٍ شَيْئًا إِنَّ اللَّـهَ عَلِيمٌ قَدِيرٌ
It is God who creates you, then makes you die; and some reach the age of dotage when Men forget those things which they had knowledge about them. God is indeed all-knowing and all-powerful.
(Surah An-Nahl : 70)
How can we boost our brain?
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1) Keep Educating yourself, for this you have to get out of the comfort zone to push and nourish your brain. Do anything from learning a foreign language, study new subjects and taking a different route to work. Such stretching is exactly what scientists say best keeps a brain in tune.
2) Exercise pumps blood to the brain and encourages the growth of new brain cells
3) Mentally stimulating activities may help reverse cognitive decline.
4) Invest in your bonds with friends and loved ones.
5) Eat & Drink in Moderation
These above precautions you may take them to help your reverse cognitive decline... you must have to keep in mind that some changes are inevitable...but you have to indulge in learning which will let you to manage inevitable changes in ur body...this is the actual learning we should keep getting it from cradle to grave...
Now come to the lengthy answer, first of all you should need to understand that, some changes are inevitable, but we have to learn how would we have to manage those inevitable changes, which are pretty much certain in our upcoming lives....
Like the rest of your body, your brain changes with each passing year. From the time we are infants, our brains are adapting, learning, making memories and more. We become smarter and sharper, earning the wisdom that truly only comes with life experience. Once we hit our late twenties, the brain’s aging process begins and we begin losing neurons—the cells that make up the brain and nervous system. By our sixties, our brains have literally begun to shrink...this is what neuroscience explains...
But you have to learn how your brain changes as you age to get a better handle on what is happening in this magical part of your body.
First i'll start from very important part of our brain, which is called prefrontal cortex...Professor Sarah-Jayne Blakemore, a neuroscientist with the Institute of Cognitive Neuroscience at University College London says,
" The prefrontal cortex is the region at the front of the brain just behind the forehead, and is an area of the brain that undergoes the longest period of development. It is an important area of the brain for high cognitive functions such as planning and decision-making, and it is also a key area for social behavior, social awareness, for empathy and understanding and interacting with other people, and various personality traits. Prof. Blakemore said the prefrontal cortex “is the part of the brain that makes us human,” since there is such a strong link between this area of the brain and a person’s personality.
Prof. Blakemore said brain scans show the prefrontal cortex continues to change shape as people reach their 30s and up to their late 40s. "
Bottom line of above research is that Brain is not fully mature until 40s...same thing Allah mentioned in Quran
حَتَّىٰ إِذَا بَلَغَ أَشُدَّهُ وَبَلَغَ أَرْبَعِينَ سَنَةً
[He (Man) grows] until, when he reaches maturity and reaches the age of forty years,
(Al-Ahqaf : 15)
Age 40's-50's
----------
According to research in the British Medical Journal, From your mid 40s to late 50s, your reasoning skills slow. In a group of people who were first tested on various mental abilities when they were 45–49 years old, reasoning skills declined by 3.6 percent over 10 years.
The middle-age participants also experienced fading sharpness in memory and verbal fluency—the ability to say words quickly in a specific category.
Age 60's-70's
----------
According to researchers at the University of California, San Diego School of Medicine. in 60s, The brain has begun to shrink in size and, after a lifetime of gaining accumulated knowledge, it becomes less efficient at accessing that knowledge and adding to it. The greatest risk factor for Alzheimer’s is advancing age, and most individuals with the disease are 65 or older. Surprisingly, when Alzheimer’s hits people in their 60s and 70s, they show faster rates of brain tissue loss and cognitive decline compared to patients 80 years and older.
Age 70's-80
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in 70s and 80s, Your risk of developing Alzheimer’s increases with age, reaching 50 percent by age 85...
Crux of above stages Allah pointing out in Quran,
وَاللَّـهُ خَلَقَكُمْ ثُمَّ يَتَوَفَّاكُمْ وَمِنكُم مَّن يُرَدُّ إِلَىٰ أَرْذَلِ الْعُمُرِ لِكَيْ لَا يَعْلَمَ بَعْدَ عِلْمٍ شَيْئًا إِنَّ اللَّـهَ عَلِيمٌ قَدِيرٌ
It is God who creates you, then makes you die; and some reach the age of dotage when Men forget those things which they had knowledge about them. God is indeed all-knowing and all-powerful.
(Surah An-Nahl : 70)
How can we boost our brain?
--------------------
1) Keep Educating yourself, for this you have to get out of the comfort zone to push and nourish your brain. Do anything from learning a foreign language, study new subjects and taking a different route to work. Such stretching is exactly what scientists say best keeps a brain in tune.
2) Exercise pumps blood to the brain and encourages the growth of new brain cells
3) Mentally stimulating activities may help reverse cognitive decline.
4) Invest in your bonds with friends and loved ones.
5) Eat & Drink in Moderation
These above precautions you may take them to help your reverse cognitive decline... you must have to keep in mind that some changes are inevitable...but you have to indulge in learning which will let you to manage inevitable changes in ur body...this is the actual learning we should keep getting it from cradle to grave...
Thursday, November 27, 2014
About Creation of Universe
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Step (Nothingness Except God)
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As all scientists are agreed on one point before Bang Bang, that there was nothingness, only darkness was prevailing in this universe…
HADTIH, Ibn Kathir
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"Allah Almighty created creation in darkness and then on that day He cast to them some of His light. Whoever got some of His light on that day is guided, and whoever missed is misguided."
This Hadith Guides us everything was created in darkness then Allah illuminated the heavens & earth with the his light as we see in Above pic…Allah explains in Quran the mechanism of his light, and how it works… He says
اللَّـهُ نُورُ السَّمَاوَاتِ وَالْأَرْضِ ۚ مَثَلُ نُورِهِ كَمِشْكَاةٍ فِيهَا مِصْبَاحٌ ۖ الْمِصْبَاحُ فِي زُجَاجَةٍ ۖ الزُّجَاجَةُ كَأَنَّهَا كَوْكَبٌ دُرِّيٌّ يُوقَدُ مِن شَجَرَةٍ مُّبَارَكَةٍ زَيْتُونَةٍ لَّا شَرْقِيَّةٍ وَلَا غَرْبِيَّةٍ يَكَادُ زَيْتُهَا يُضِيءُ وَلَوْ لَمْ تَمْسَسْهُ نَارٌ ۚ نُّورٌ عَلَىٰ نُورٍ
(An-Nur-38)
God is the light of the heavens and the earth. The semblance of His light is that of a niche in which is a lamp, the flame within a glass, the glass a glittering star as it were, lit with the oil of a blessed tree, the olive, neither of the East nor of the West, whose oil appears to light up even though fire touches it not, -- light upon light.
before Edwin Hubble (1920), thirteen centuries before Quran describes the entire cycle of the beginning, Expansion, the end and the return again to a similar beginning…
1st Step (Beginning of Universe):
****************************
The first step of creation as related in the Quran accurately describes the event of the Big Bang in the following words:
أَوَلَمْ يَرَ الَّذِينَ كَفَرُوا أَنَّ السَّمَاوَاتِ وَالْأَرْضَ كَانَتَا رَتْقًا فَفَتَقْنَاهُمَا ۖ وَجَعَلْنَا مِنَ الْمَاءِ كُلَّ شَيْءٍ حَيٍّ ۖ أَفَلَا يُؤْمِنُونَ
(Surah Anbiya - 31)
Do not the unbelievers see that the heavens and the earth were a closed-up mass (ratqan), then We clove them asunder (fataqna)? And We made from water every living thing. Will they not then believe?
In this verse the words ratqan (closed-up mass), and fataqna (We clove them asunder), carry the basic message of the whole verse. Authentic Arabic lexicons give two meanings of ratqan, that have great relevance to the topic under discussion. One meaning is 'the coming together of something and the consequent infusion into a single entity' and the second meaning is 'total darkness'. Both these meanings are significantly applicable.
2nd Step (Expansion of Universe):
*****************************
It should be remembered that the concept of the continuous expansion of the universe is exclusive to the Quran. No other Divine scriptures even remotely hint at it. The discovery that the universe is constantly expanding is of prime significance to scientists, because it helps create a better understanding of how the universe was initially created, as we see in Above Cover photo (13.7 Billions of Years upto today)
Quran explains it
وَالسَّمَاءَ بَنَيْنَاهَا بِأَيْدٍ وَإِنَّا لَمُوسِعُونَ
(Surah Zariyaat : 41)
And the heaven We built with Our own powers (aydin) and indeed We go on expanding it (musi'un).
3rd Step (Contraction of Universe):
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يَوْمَ نَطْوِي السَّمَاءَ كَطَيِّ السِّجِلِّ لِلْكُتُبِ ۚ كَمَا بَدَأْنَا أَوَّلَ خَلْقٍ نُّعِيدُهُ ۚ وَعْدًا عَلَيْنَا ۚ إِنَّا كُنَّا فَاعِلِينَ
Remember the day when We shall roll up the heavens like the rolling up of written scrolls, We shall revert it (to nothing) as it was before We first created it. This is a promise incumbent on Us; We will certainly fulfil it.
Scientific descriptions illustrating the making of a black hole, very closely resemble what the Quran describes in the above verse…A mass of accretion from space falling into a black hole, as described above, would be pressed into a sheet under the enormous pressure created by the gravitational and electromagnetic forces. As the centre of the black hole is constantly revolving around itself, this sheet—as it approaches—will begin to be wrapped around it, before disappearing into the realm of the unknown at last…Allah knows better actual Contraction of Universe…
Then we’ll end up this discussion with words of our Beloved Prophet PBUH:
HADITH
^^^^^^
Abu Hurairah R.A. narrated that Prophet PBUH said :
" The Angel of Death will say to Allah...O Allah! Those Are in the Heavens & All Those Are in The Dunya, They Have Come To an End Except For Those Who You Wish to Remain Alive...
Allah Will Say, Who Remains? And The Angel Will Say; O Allah, Jibrail Remains, Mikail Remains, Israfil Remains And The Angel Who Are Carrying Your Throne, They Remain...
Allah The Almighty Will Say: Let Death Come to Jibrail, Let Death Come to Mikail, Let Death Come to Israfil, And Let Death Come To All Those Angel Who Are Carrying My Throne...
Then Allah Will Say To the Angel Of Death, Who Remains? & He Knows better Who Remains...And The Angel Will Say, O Allah: I Remain, You Remain, No One Else Remains...And Then Allah Will Say, I Created You For A Purpose, You Have Fullfilled Your Purpose, You Also Die And He Will Die...
And The Allah The Almighty, He will Roll Up All the Heavens In His Hand, He Will Roll Up All The World In His Hand And Allah Will Raise His Voice And Allah Will Say: I'M the Almighty Allah, I'm The Almighty Allah...For Whom Is The Devine Rule Today? For Whom Is the Power Today? For Whom Is the Kingdom Today? I'm The King Of All Kings...Where are your Dictators? Where Are Your Oppressors? No One Will Answer, Allah Himself Will Answer And Allah Will Say: Power is For Allah, Might Is For Allah, The One, The Only, The Irresistible."
CONSEQUENTLY… ALLAH IS THE AWAL & HE IS THE AKHIR….WE CAME SOME-WHERE IN BETWEEN JUST LIKE MODE OF DUST… to God we belong and to Him shall we return---(Al Quran)…
****************************
As all scientists are agreed on one point before Bang Bang, that there was nothingness, only darkness was prevailing in this universe…
HADTIH, Ibn Kathir
^^^^^^^^^^^^^
"Allah Almighty created creation in darkness and then on that day He cast to them some of His light. Whoever got some of His light on that day is guided, and whoever missed is misguided."
This Hadith Guides us everything was created in darkness then Allah illuminated the heavens & earth with the his light as we see in Above pic…Allah explains in Quran the mechanism of his light, and how it works… He says
اللَّـهُ نُورُ السَّمَاوَاتِ وَالْأَرْضِ ۚ مَثَلُ نُورِهِ كَمِشْكَاةٍ فِيهَا مِصْبَاحٌ ۖ الْمِصْبَاحُ فِي زُجَاجَةٍ ۖ الزُّجَاجَةُ كَأَنَّهَا كَوْكَبٌ دُرِّيٌّ يُوقَدُ مِن شَجَرَةٍ مُّبَارَكَةٍ زَيْتُونَةٍ لَّا شَرْقِيَّةٍ وَلَا غَرْبِيَّةٍ يَكَادُ زَيْتُهَا يُضِيءُ وَلَوْ لَمْ تَمْسَسْهُ نَارٌ ۚ نُّورٌ عَلَىٰ نُورٍ
(An-Nur-38)
God is the light of the heavens and the earth. The semblance of His light is that of a niche in which is a lamp, the flame within a glass, the glass a glittering star as it were, lit with the oil of a blessed tree, the olive, neither of the East nor of the West, whose oil appears to light up even though fire touches it not, -- light upon light.
before Edwin Hubble (1920), thirteen centuries before Quran describes the entire cycle of the beginning, Expansion, the end and the return again to a similar beginning…
1st Step (Beginning of Universe):
****************************
The first step of creation as related in the Quran accurately describes the event of the Big Bang in the following words:
أَوَلَمْ يَرَ الَّذِينَ كَفَرُوا أَنَّ السَّمَاوَاتِ وَالْأَرْضَ كَانَتَا رَتْقًا فَفَتَقْنَاهُمَا ۖ وَجَعَلْنَا مِنَ الْمَاءِ كُلَّ شَيْءٍ حَيٍّ ۖ أَفَلَا يُؤْمِنُونَ
(Surah Anbiya - 31)
Do not the unbelievers see that the heavens and the earth were a closed-up mass (ratqan), then We clove them asunder (fataqna)? And We made from water every living thing. Will they not then believe?
In this verse the words ratqan (closed-up mass), and fataqna (We clove them asunder), carry the basic message of the whole verse. Authentic Arabic lexicons give two meanings of ratqan, that have great relevance to the topic under discussion. One meaning is 'the coming together of something and the consequent infusion into a single entity' and the second meaning is 'total darkness'. Both these meanings are significantly applicable.
2nd Step (Expansion of Universe):
*****************************
It should be remembered that the concept of the continuous expansion of the universe is exclusive to the Quran. No other Divine scriptures even remotely hint at it. The discovery that the universe is constantly expanding is of prime significance to scientists, because it helps create a better understanding of how the universe was initially created, as we see in Above Cover photo (13.7 Billions of Years upto today)
Quran explains it
وَالسَّمَاءَ بَنَيْنَاهَا بِأَيْدٍ وَإِنَّا لَمُوسِعُونَ
(Surah Zariyaat : 41)
And the heaven We built with Our own powers (aydin) and indeed We go on expanding it (musi'un).
3rd Step (Contraction of Universe):
******************************
يَوْمَ نَطْوِي السَّمَاءَ كَطَيِّ السِّجِلِّ لِلْكُتُبِ ۚ كَمَا بَدَأْنَا أَوَّلَ خَلْقٍ نُّعِيدُهُ ۚ وَعْدًا عَلَيْنَا ۚ إِنَّا كُنَّا فَاعِلِينَ
Remember the day when We shall roll up the heavens like the rolling up of written scrolls, We shall revert it (to nothing) as it was before We first created it. This is a promise incumbent on Us; We will certainly fulfil it.
Scientific descriptions illustrating the making of a black hole, very closely resemble what the Quran describes in the above verse…A mass of accretion from space falling into a black hole, as described above, would be pressed into a sheet under the enormous pressure created by the gravitational and electromagnetic forces. As the centre of the black hole is constantly revolving around itself, this sheet—as it approaches—will begin to be wrapped around it, before disappearing into the realm of the unknown at last…Allah knows better actual Contraction of Universe…
Then we’ll end up this discussion with words of our Beloved Prophet PBUH:
HADITH
^^^^^^
Abu Hurairah R.A. narrated that Prophet PBUH said :
" The Angel of Death will say to Allah...O Allah! Those Are in the Heavens & All Those Are in The Dunya, They Have Come To an End Except For Those Who You Wish to Remain Alive...
Allah Will Say, Who Remains? And The Angel Will Say; O Allah, Jibrail Remains, Mikail Remains, Israfil Remains And The Angel Who Are Carrying Your Throne, They Remain...
Allah The Almighty Will Say: Let Death Come to Jibrail, Let Death Come to Mikail, Let Death Come to Israfil, And Let Death Come To All Those Angel Who Are Carrying My Throne...
Then Allah Will Say To the Angel Of Death, Who Remains? & He Knows better Who Remains...And The Angel Will Say, O Allah: I Remain, You Remain, No One Else Remains...And Then Allah Will Say, I Created You For A Purpose, You Have Fullfilled Your Purpose, You Also Die And He Will Die...
And The Allah The Almighty, He will Roll Up All the Heavens In His Hand, He Will Roll Up All The World In His Hand And Allah Will Raise His Voice And Allah Will Say: I'M the Almighty Allah, I'm The Almighty Allah...For Whom Is The Devine Rule Today? For Whom Is the Power Today? For Whom Is the Kingdom Today? I'm The King Of All Kings...Where are your Dictators? Where Are Your Oppressors? No One Will Answer, Allah Himself Will Answer And Allah Will Say: Power is For Allah, Might Is For Allah, The One, The Only, The Irresistible."
CONSEQUENTLY… ALLAH IS THE AWAL & HE IS THE AKHIR….WE CAME SOME-WHERE IN BETWEEN JUST LIKE MODE OF DUST… to God we belong and to Him shall we return---(Al Quran)…
Friday, June 27, 2014
Why "Ya Hayee Ya Qaum"?
Dua for the first Ashra of Ramzaan is
Now the question is what is the wisdom behind "Hayee and Qayum" and why not "Rehman and Rheem"? I m sure there must be But I DO NOT know about it and just want to know about it.
Wednesday, June 29, 2011
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